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Cheaters: Men Cheaters And The Women They Cheat With
By Stephany W Alexander
Are you the "other" woman? Find out about men cheaters and the types of women they cheat with.
Men cheaters cheat with women they have access to. Surprisingly, many male cheaters are not very picky with the women they cheat with, frequently cheating with women that are way below status than their current partner in looks and intelligence. Sometimes men cheat simply because they have the opportunity. Cheating is typically done by three types of men: those with low self esteem, those who are unhappy at home and those who are afraid of commitment and are seeking 'fun love'. According to the statistics on cheating spouses, 50 to 70% of married men (between 38 and 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their wives. One recent study found that two-thirds of the wives (26 to 36 million women) whose husbands were cheating had no idea their husbands were having an affair - largely because they failed to recognize their cheating signs.
Married men, particularly those in long term relationships, cheat mainly because they believe that having a short-term affair will resolve any problems temporarily they have at home and prevent them from 'hurting' anyone long term. The actual fact that their partner is already being hurt by their lack of attention and affection - and being prevented from finding love too - does not comes into the picture. There are three problems to this approach. First, it stops the major conflicts in the relationship being explored, acknowledged, and addressed. Second, it makes the situation worse because any contact only proves starkly what is already missing at home, especially sexually. Thirdly, it deliberately ignores the fact that the man is taking his affections elsewhere which begs the question: How does giving one's self to someone else show love and affection for the person left at home and, accord her due respect for her love and support?
Men who cheat on women by keeping relationships stray through a conflict of perception. What their women perceive men want from them may not be necessarily what those men actually desire, and women seldom seek to find out because they are afraid of the answers. So after the honeymoon period is over, when the cheating man
why do older men have affairs with younger women?
a man that is in his fifthies seeing a a married woman in her thirties married and he is single.
Understanding sex and affairs and women better.?
PLEASE, I NEED SERIOUS AND MATURE ANSWERS, I NEED TO UNDERSTAND TRUTHFULLY.
Like me, everyone knows how a lot of men cheat on their women and women cheat on their men. I am very nice to all people and females find me to be very attractive and friendly. I have found that a task that is harder than bench pressing Mount Everest is getting a female to have sex with me (or males). Infidelity and cheating is so common that it seems too easy to do. I find it so complicated and difficult.
Can someone please explain how females cheat (have sex) with someone other than their man and how is it so easy. I cannot comprehend that. I mean I am so nice and good at school, good looking and whatnot and girls don’t have sex with me. What is going on?
Well, a lot of them go to places where the singles frequent such as clubs and bars.
Some of them make online relationships.
Advice: Don’t ever cheat on anyone because that just labels you as “trash” and no one wants to be with trash.
How many wives has John McCain had that we know about and was he having affairs with women while married? ?
An article in Rolling Stone this week says he had a lot of girlriends whle married in Jacksonville Florida and Rio.
His wife before Cindy was injured in a car accident and while she was recuperating in the hospital, John was screwing Cindy. He ended up divorcing, but yes, he was an adulterer. That is on the record.
Who do think have more affairs, Women or Men?
I think women do, they are more devious than men, have and can hold better secrets than men, since the beginning of time there have been women prostitutes and still are today, yes there are men prostitutes today but not as many and as cheap as women. Men couldn’t;t have an affair without a woman, most women that have affairs with married men know that they are married, yet always men are put down as the scoundrel. Just recently Tiger Woods is all over the news and he is a loser for what he did to his wife but he couldn’t have done it without those cheap tarts, who all knew he was married, women always blame the man and take them for all they have when something happens but it;s their own that cause it all, women hide and play around more than men do, yet the man is always blamed and the woman is felt pity for, men don’t and cant make a woman sleep with them, women do that by themselves cos they want to, most women are only out for money (Tiger, perfect example) women are loose and easy and cheap to get and definitely have more affairs than men, my opinion anyway. Just remember and I’m not talking rape here, a man cannot have an affair without a woman, so women , blame yourselves.
It doesn’t depend on the gender, it’s the person. Anyone can cheat whether their a male or female, so i would say it’s pretty equal. It’s true though, men are always put down for cheating, and never the women.
Which is worse? Women chasing (wasting time on) bad boys or men chasing attractive women?
I hear a lot of women say that them wasting time on bad boys is their lamentable choice and that chasing attractive women & having affairs is men’s lamentable choice, and that these tendencies are part of each gender’s nature. Men almost never seek out high-maintenance, we sometimes tolerate it for a while because of the woman’s hotness.
So rarely do I hear the slightest apology for some women’s taste for bad boys, but I hear so much judgement of and venom towards men for following their natural tendencies.
I would also disagree with the initial premise. I think it is far more all men’s nature to seek the most attractive mate they can. As opposed to women’s seeking of bad boys being more short lived and more likely with young women & women with low self esteem. And as for the cheating by men, it’s far too overlooked that so often the man finally decided to cheat…….not just because he wants variety, but because his woman is being a beeeach.
Women have it worse off. Men have it bad…but there are indeed some attractive women that are also intelligent, stable, etc. However, all bad boys are…bad.